Being in a relationship with a trans person

So I thought I would write this blog post as I know there's a lot of confusion when it comes to dating a trans person. Me personally, I'm a straight female therefore I'm going to date a straight male, now I know you're all thinking ''but you're trans..'' and my response is, who cares?! Being trans doesn't define me as a person, relationships are not about genitals they're about love and respect. I'm focusing more on trans females as I am a trans female and have had relationships with straight guys. 

For me personally, I like straight men, I don't consider myself male so why would I go out with a gay guy? 

There are a lot of men in the world, some people who wouldn't date trans girls just for the fact they're trans, without knowing anything about them which confuses me because being trans is what I am not who I am and I absolutely would not date a guy who sees me as trans, I would date a guy who sees me for who I am not what I am. I don't quite understand why some trans girls go out with men who only see them as trans and not actually as a woman which they are!

I also don't like being treated like a sex doll, I'm not here to pleasure you just because you're into trans people, I am a person trying to get by in life! I'm not someones kinky fetish, I'm a female who wants to do well in life, so don't treat me like shit because I will not respond nicely 

Now I know a few men who I'm not going to mention any names because that would be mean, but I know some guys who don't care if the person they're dating is trans, they say they don't care what's between their legs which I honestly think is the best thing in the world, it actually gives people like me hope that there is men who will like us trans girls for who we are! 

Now off topic, I've been asked to do a blog post answering questions, so I decided I will. If you have ever wanted to ask me a question (personal or trans related) I would happily answer them in my next blog post, so I would like everyone to either Facebook mail me a question they would like to ask and I will answer it on here. 

I'm going to put a link to my Facebook and my Tumblr, on Tumblr you can ask anonymous questions and on Facebook obviously your name will be shown to me but it will not appear anywhere on here, so no one except me knows you asked the question(s). 

Thank you for reading everyone!

MWAH!! xxx

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